Marriage is a bond which binds a man and a woman to support each other physically, emotionally, financially and legally. They become each other’s pillar and strength. If one is stable at their relationship they perform all their duty being towards family or society. In today’s India now marriage has not remained the forever vow which it used to be in the earlier days. The divorce rates are increasing with the upcoming days. To remedy this scenario of increasing divorce rates counseling has been started. There are many famous couples who went to marriage counselor to save their marriage without the shame of the society and the perfect example of this is Ben Affleck known as our Batman and his wife Jennifer Garner. Marriage Counseling has not remained shame as it is seen as couple trying to save their marriage. There are no couples who don’t have relationship problems, some solve it on their own and some part their ways and there the concept of marriage counseling comes whose help can be sought.
Today this problem is arising because both husband and wife work and don’t have time to spend with each other. The foremost reason being time, there are several other trouble issues but mostly discussed is time. This arises because of work-related issues, expectation from each other and compatibility problems. Because of these problems the couple stop sharing with each other and land near the counselors. Couples go for therapy and counseling but the question which arises is how much these things help in saving the relationship. For this one needs to go the counselor where they can blurt out everything which is in their mind but many don’t do this because of confidentiality. The second reason which ruins the relationship is expectation. Expectation from each other and when it does not get fulfilled it leads to arguments. It’s not that only the couples are the affected and stressed parties but their family and children also suffers because of them. Children who see their parents fighting because of their relationship problems doesn’t generate a good environment from them and eventually those children lose their faith in marriage.
Now a days, even the couple goes to counseling before marriage also so they can understand what each of them expects from each other which is premarital counseling. Accepting and acknowledging the problems and working it out will take the marriage a long way.
Marriage counseling is not only about saving your marriage but also telling the truth to your counterpart and let you do what is right. Trust in two people is what which makes the relationship go stronger. And through counseling this needs to be built between the couple. All confusion and conflict in a relationship leads to broken family relationship and disharmony in family and also divorce. Lawtendo is one which can help you in gaining it; all you need to give is time to the counseling and to each other.